My boyfriend and my Bestfriend Getting VERY close?

[longwada]

ok so here is the story
i have best friend who i have known forever lets call her maily. i started dating my boyfriend 4 months ago. lets call him dave. i have know both maily and dave for a very long time and we pretty much grew up together. Recently i found out that Maily likes dave and we were talking and she said she just wants to get really close to him if she cant have a relation ship with him. So being the friend i am i told her she could hang with him and be great friends with him. however now im thinking i have made a very wrong decision. dave and maily text all the time and they keep their conversations secret when i ask. sometimes dave will even forget to text me because hes texting her.......... no i find that shes getting really close to him and it kind of bugs me that they text and talk on the phone so much. But i know dave LOVES me but is it stupid to be feeling worried.. and i guess jealous.?? should i take any actions? i really need help this bugs me alot
another thing is that maily already has a boyfriend.. and hes one of my best friends. i have talked to hima about it and we are both really worried. Dave tells me he loves me every day so i really do beleive it. Dave And Mailey both say they are allways talking about me when they text. but the fact that they cant show me what they r saying sometimes pisses me off. and when we hang out on a double date mailyher boyfriend dave and i sometimes... maily and dave will sit across from eachother and text. and that is when i really wonder if they lied when they say they only talk about me
he also has very good morals.. so i know hes not sneaking around with her.. but sometimes. i feel like a horible person becasue it feels like she has a better relationship with him than i do...

[avTKertycdf]

they got some goin on . pointblank . f that .

[IdeaVeala]

Smack da bitch

[calibear12490]

weell imagine your friend as a guy. and they are just buds. there are things that guys wont tell you when they talk to each other. but it sounds really unfair of your friend even if they are just buds..so talk to her but dont accuse her at all

[ClavyCum]

Something is going on if they are going to hide something from you.

[Assuffspeerse]

what makes you convinced hes in love with you?
Its not stupid it seems like your friends being a bitch no one should tell their friends they like their boyfriends and still act on it and talk to him so much. That makes all of yall sort of dumb actually.

[IamSchnitz]

Well I guess you have gave them both a taste of the forbidden fruit. And they both have sexual organs so read between the lines they are teasing each other at youre expense GET RID OF THEM BOTH

[unjuratry]

let them keep on and if nothing changes you need to have a talk with them and say that you dont feel comfortable that they are always talkin and ignoring you and wont tell you what they are talkin about . i mean who knows he could be askin your for advice on how to impress you. see this guy i liked would always text my friend but turns out they were talkin about me.

[adsbyxrumer]

I think yo should take action. No friend should be that close to a friends boyfriend UNLESS they were the same amount of closeness before you started dating.
But thats wrong

[Digirrab]

You are completely within in your rights to be feeling both worried and jealous. You friend Maily should have respected your relationship with Dave and should never have put you in the position where you had to give her permission to be so close with your boyfriend. The fact that you told her it was ok just shows how much you cared about her feelings but the fact that she asked to be super close to your boyfriend in the first place shows that she didnt care about your feelings at all. She was very selfish in this situation and your boyfriend is also acting ridiculous. I think they both are taking advantage of your generosity. Tell her to stop wasting time clinging to your boyfriend and go find a boyfriend of her own. If she wasnt always texting and talking to Dave maybe she could find a boy for herself. Tell Dave that he is acting like a jerk and how would he like it if you were always on the phone with one of his friends? This all has to stop.

[creedemnikike]

So you have been a good friend to your friend and now she needs to be a good friend to you

I would tell her that if you had known she liked Dave before you guys were dating it might be different but she didnt speak up and now you guys ARE together. I would tell her while you dont mind them being friends and hanging out you feel she is blantantly disrespecting you bye hiding things between them and CONSTANTLY texting. If she is your friend she will understand that they can be friends but within REASON

I kinda think that they might be screwing around. If they are I am sooo sorry and they are TERRIBLE people and she is NOT your friend. Please if that is the case tell them both to go strait to hell

[antapitiofs]

im not one of those girls that flip out at every little thing they do but if any of my boyfriends kept a secret like that from me i would dump him and leave my exbest friend. Ive been in ur situation befor. My friend knew i had a Crush on this guy and when we started dating she got super close to him. Like when i was at her house she would always be on the phone talking to him or textting him. Then one day i found out he blew me off to go to a water park with her so i broke up with him and i broke my friendship off with her. She and i were friends since kindergarten and him and i were friends since 1st grade.