by trert4t34 » Sun Feb 14, 2010 2:15 pm
Im unsuccessfully trying to rack up my brain in order to understand how people would feel miserable by not having a romantic partner. Its like youre measuring your success by other peoples measures. You have no idea whether that cute couple holding hands will have a big fight in two hours or if shes sleeping with the guys best friend and is carying his sperm inside her from 2 hours ago without the clueless wimp knowing it or worse yet HEs sleeping with HIS best friend and SHE doesnt know about it. If you dont like my George Carlinesque approach to it then too bad for ya.
If youre not able to be happy alone then hooking up with someone else will only be a poor cover for it. Learn to be happy BY YOURSELF first and then improve your life with someone else fittingly. If you feel miserable alone then its a sign youre not realized in the areas of your life that matter most to you and are trying to find a replacement for the emptiness.